#14 That is how I got my mother to come to my wedding. She admittedly refused, until I asked her to make the ring pillow and flower basket, and if I could use her sewing machine to tailor my dress. She agreed because she loves to do crafts. I figured it wasn't a manipulation because I wasn't asking her to come anymore, just leaving it open.
“If you want someone to like you, ask them for their opinion or help in something you know they are good at. People like to feel important and needed, so you fill a need by asking, so they automatically view you positively. “
#14 That is how I got my mother to come to my wedding. She admittedly refused, until I asked her to make the ring pillow and flower basket, and if I could use her sewing machine to tailor my dress. She agreed because she loves to do crafts. I figured it wasn't a manipulation because I wasn't asking her to come anymore, just leaving it open.
#7 That doesn't work on real Karens