“When it comes to opposites attract, I believe it’s really surface only — the parts that too many people care about, funnily enough. My husband and I have many of the same CORE values, such as religion, political views, money, communication, etc. Where we differ is so silly, it doesn’t matter.”
“You look at us together, and you’d swear we are not married based on looks alone. We love different hobbies and have some different food preferences. Still, we’ve also grown together with some things, and our interests have kept us talking about different things, so it’s never boring. You don’t have to be two peas in a pod, but you also don’t have to be chalk and cheese. Like damn near everything in life, there is a balance. Some similar people work, like my best friend and her man. Some polar opposites work. Regardless, you must keep thriving as individuals and have your own things but still come together at the end.”
Amen!