"It hits hard. My dream was to travel to X one day on an extended trip.
Then I ended up living there… for a decade. And it was both amazing, fulfilling and… dreadful.
Because what was next? That WAS the ‘unachievable’ dream. I moved back to the US and felt like I was sleepwalking for a couple years."
#11 Yes, it does, especially when theirs is three times a year, maybe... so there is a bit of "it's good for US, to do it more often" and the excitement when they agree to a time in the future (it's never in the moment for them, they have to build up to it).
#16 Yeah, cheating never makes a good situation, but the older people get the more likely it becomes, so there isn't a uptick in infidelity, you are just reaching the age where your age group is doing it.