"So many red flags! We met at a coffee shop one evening after I got out of work. He paid the barista in cash and tossed coins down on the counter (not cool, bro). He was awkward throughout the date, but things got super weird when it was time to leave. He REALLY wanted to come back to my place with me and 'hang out.' I told him I had a bunch of school work to do (I was working full-time and going to school part-time) and he suggested a 'solution' that involved me doing my school work at my apartment and him sitting there so he could hang out with me. When I wouldn't give in, he made a pouty face and said he was in a cuddly mood, then proceeded to basically shove his tongue down my throat. When he finally got into his car to leave, I watched him leave before I left the parking lot, then drove around for a little while before going back to my place to make sure he didn't follow me home."
"He told me his feet were soft because he used Vaseline. He then took his shoes off and rubbed his foot on my leg as a demonstration. I was mortified!"
Normal is boring, how about be kind. Kind is amazing no matter how weird your ideas are.