“I was bartending and there was a hen party who’s challenge in their game was to kiss the bartender. I said ok as long as it was on the cheek and turn my head, but she woman grabbed my face and tried to kiss me on the lips.
Had to walk away and tell them I wouldn’t be serving them and all they could say was “aww come on don’t be frigid, you know you want to”
If a woman thinks she's being cute by groping a strange man, the proper response is "Don't put your hands on me." If her actions would be considered harassment when done by a man, TELL HER THAT in no uncertain terms. The next step is complaining, in writing. to her supervisor/Human Resources.
This cr#p continues primarily because men allow it to pass without complaint.
Speak Up.
By the way, I'm almost 80 years old and it still happens - once.
Getting called on it breaks them of it rapidly.
Only one comment has ever gotten to me, and I’ve gotten many comments and been groped. I’ve always taken it as either a compliment or an opening depending on the woman. The point, however, is that they shouldn’t be doing it if they don’t want it done to them.
#14 Only a cheap, skanky hooker would ask such a rude question. Trust me...I know.