“Bunch of moms staring at highschool boys swimming and comment on how hot they are. Non stop leering. I can’t imagine how they would have acted if there were dads looking at girls that way.”
“When they say “I have no filter.” – this always translates to me, I’m a cow and arrogant. Everyone has a filter, you’re just an a*sehole.”
“When I was an Uber driver, I’d sometimes get a car full of girls say something like “You’re not gonna k*ll us, are you?”. “
“I got approached by a woman at my friend’s birthday party. This woman was mid 50’s and I was 40 at the time. She is married with an adult daughter who was there. She approached me and said I was attractive and I thanked her. She proceeded to continue to hit on me and then commented on my pecs and grabbed them. I took a step back and she saw the disgust in my face. She was offended I didn’t want her touching me.”
“A girl once tried to seduce me with the immortal words “I’m as smooth down there as a 4-year-old”. This was almost 20 years ago and to this day I just can’t even.”
“Some lady I worked with once touched my stomach and asked me when I’m due. If the situation would have been reversed, I would have been fired.”
“I worked in an elementary school for many years and the amount of female teachers who openly talk about how “cute” the boys are or how they will be “total heartbreakers” was foul.”
“Can I touch your beard” and proceeding to do so without waiting for an answer. Unless you’re my wife or one of my kid nieces the answer is no by the way.”
“You’re well trained” whenever they see me do dishes, vacuum or laundy. Like I‘ve been trained as some manservant or they just expect husbands to be another child.”
“Women asking me “ohh what’s under your kilt?” to which I reply “my wifey’s best friend” or “a perch for 8 golden eagles”. it usually ends there.”
“I don’t know about “women” but I had a female manager interviewing me for a job telling me they were PRO sexual harassment at the workplace, wink wink, nudge nudge. I was…22? She was 50, easily.”
“Me and a date making out in a dark parking lot at night. Girl – starts laughing Me – what’s funny? Girl – It’s just that, if I were to call the police and tell them you sexually assaulted me right now, there’s not much you can do to prove you’re innocent.”
“Bragging about how proficient they are at stalking people on social media. It’s creepy af.”
“Can you still get it up” like f@#k you! This is the equivalent of a man asking a woman if she is tight or still gets wet.”
“Talking about how a young or infant boy is gonna be sexy or a ladies man. Like you seriously sound like a creep and I’m being polite by using creep. Once while waiting tables, another server wrapped her arms around my neck, stared into my eyes, and said, “is it bad that I want to f**k someone besides my boyfriend?” Like what in every hell.”
“I was bartending and there was a hen party who’s challenge in their game was to kiss the bartender. I said ok as long as it was on the cheek and turn my head, but she woman grabbed my face and tried to kiss me on the lips.
Had to walk away and tell them I wouldn’t be serving them and all they could say was “aww come on don’t be frigid, you know you want to”
“As a boy who looked 19 at the age of 14, the number of women who have casually laughed off hitting on me and turned it into “come see me when you turn 18” (again while I’m 14) is a bit much.”
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If a woman thinks she's being cute by groping a strange man, the proper response is "Don't put your hands on me." If her actions would be considered harassment when done by a man, TELL HER THAT in no uncertain terms. The next step is complaining, in writing. to her supervisor/Human Resources.
This cr#p continues primarily because men allow it to pass without complaint.
Speak Up.
By the way, I'm almost 80 years old and it still happens - once.
Getting called on it breaks them of it rapidly.
Only one comment has ever gotten to me, and I’ve gotten many comments and been groped. I’ve always taken it as either a compliment or an opening depending on the woman. The point, however, is that they shouldn’t be doing it if they don’t want it done to them.
#14 Only a cheap, skanky hooker would ask such a rude question. Trust me...I know.