“I got approached by a woman at my friend’s birthday party. This woman was mid 50’s and I was 40 at the time. She is married with an adult daughter who was there. She approached me and said I was attractive and I thanked her. She proceeded to continue to hit on me and then commented on my pecs and grabbed them. I took a step back and she saw the disgust in my face. She was offended I didn’t want her touching me.”
If a woman thinks she's being cute by groping a strange man, the proper response is "Don't put your hands on me." If her actions would be considered harassment when done by a man, TELL HER THAT in no uncertain terms. The next step is complaining, in writing. to her supervisor/Human Resources.
This cr#p continues primarily because men allow it to pass without complaint.
Speak Up.
By the way, I'm almost 80 years old and it still happens - once.
Getting called on it breaks them of it rapidly.
Only one comment has ever gotten to me, and I’ve gotten many comments and been groped. I’ve always taken it as either a compliment or an opening depending on the woman. The point, however, is that they shouldn’t be doing it if they don’t want it done to them.
#14 Only a cheap, skanky hooker would ask such a rude question. Trust me...I know.