"I learned that it’s important to have your own interests and passions. A relationship shouldn’t be your only source of happiness."
"You shouldn’t always have to beg for someone to give you attention."
"People can say the sweetest things to you, and absolutely mean them, in the moment. But moments are fleeting."
"People tell you who they are, you just gotta be listening."
"You can do everything right and still lose."
"Never get complacent. Show em how much you care every chance you get."
"An apology is not words but a change in behavior."
"If there is a red flag, be cautiously optimistic.
If there are 34709 red flags, get the f@#k out. I was in love with the thought of being in my first real relationship and ignored everything that I should have paid attention to."
"Once someone feels comfortable being abusive towards you, that will never change no matter how much you try."
"It’s like a plant: if you tend to it, water it, feed it, and give it sunlight, it will thrive. If you leave it in the corner, neglect it, and don’t give it any of your time and effort, it will wither and die."
"Don’t be afraid to leave a relationship that isn’t working just because you have spent time in it. If it isn’t working, it isn’t working and you will only waste more time.
If you’re not happy, give yourself the opportunity to find a situation where you can be happy.
It is okay to give up on an unhealthy relationship."
"You cannot change someone. "
"If you live together, that person is not just your lover, but your roommate.
If your partner is doing most of the cooking, cleaning, and childcare, expect a lot of tension, unhappiness, and regret."
"Whoever loves the least controls the relationship."
"No answer is also an answer.
If you want an answer from your partner and they cannot give that to you, it is often your cue to decide how to proceed."
"Love yourself first."
"My wife died after only 10 years of marriage, so my lesson is that a long life together isn’t promised.
Don’t take anything for granted. Cherish the moments you’ve got."
"Communication really is key; it can make or break a connection."
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