People are so focused on ticking off boxes that they never give their potential soul mate a chance. When we met in person more, we could be surprised by someone we aren’t traditionally attracted to. Charisma and personality are hard to see on an app. So we swipe left on the short men or slightly overweight women. If we met them in person and experienced a person in their entirety before we decided we didn’t like them, maybe we’d be surprised at who we actually like.livinglitch:In line with online vs offline - You may not have a spark when messaging someone over the app but you may have a spark sitting down and talking to someone in person.I have had relationships where we dont text or talk online at all but we talk constantly in person.