
If they ghost you, walk away. Be wary of them sliding back into your DM's in the future. Pay attention to inconsistent communication or things like "I lost my charger/my phone died", "I forgot to call/text!", "just been really busy".....but its all the time. Pay attention to "breadcrumbing"Many people are emotionally unavailable and are pursuing Stimulation and validation, not connection. Hookup culture can blur boundaries. Decide if you're cool with a situationship.schlubadubdub:On the flip side, people don't have to reply immediately to texts/calls as it's fine to disconnect/have a life/work/be doing other things. Everyone has their own standard for what is a "reasonable" time to reply. It can be particularly difficult for people with things like ADHD, and doesn't automatically mean they're disinterested, emotionally unavailable, or stringing someone along. It can though lol.
quite possibly the most effed up post I've ever seen here.