Yeah. This is like seeing a woman without her makeup on. They're a totally different person.

Men start out visually orientated, but they end up being more emotionally invested. That's why after a year, we don't care what kind of pillows are on the couch or what candles you put in the bathroom. We just love our women. Women, on the other hand, start out with a whole emotional criteria and especially a VISUAL one...they're just better at hiding it. That's why she starts to immediately try and change you with your hobbies and friends. Make a change she does NOT approve of? Especially with your looks? This isn't a 'cute' response at all. This is a response where you can see they are literally re-evaluating their entire approval of you, and being an emotional (mental) creature, you might find her suddenly changing her entire set of feelings toward you because you 'broke the mold' she had constructed around you. Think on it. Do we care if they change their hair? Do MEN go "Noooo!!! Stay away from me!" with wide eyed stares? Watch out, fellas. You can so easily 'ruin' it for her and then she justifies everything that follows as 'your fault'. Adam never learned his lesson, either.

I had a huge beard , my wife never liked it.

There's an Australian band named "The Beards". All of their songs is about beards. Check them out, they're pretty amusing.