When he didn’t invite me to his birthday party. I went over to drop off a present, thinking he wasn’t having a party (hadn’t mentioned anything at school) and found him with his better friends.
My “best friend “ was going to be my best man at my wedding. A week before the wedding he called me and said a friend of his had called him and invited him to go fishing the day after my wedding.. And that they were driving up the evening of my wedding. He told me he could probably make it through the ceremony but would have to leave right after. No time for pictures or the reception…
I told him not to worry about the wedding and to go fishing. I had my brother be my best man instead. Never talked much to him after that… at the end of the day the right person was the best man…
When they would talk and talk and talk about themselves but never ask about me.
When she told me my husband and I would make hideous babies because red headed babies are the ugliest thing she has ever seen. She also locked me out of our hotel 4 hours from home with no way home at 3 am that same day after an argument over her saying my husband kills people for a living (he’s a chemist who works on developing chemotherapy). That was the last time I’ve spoken to her, 4 years ago. Such a jealous woman.
When I opened up to her about my postpartum depression and she told me that she didn’t have time for depression and it was weak. I was never vulnerable with her but I was dying inside I needed someone and she had told me she didn’t care. I began shutting her out then.
Mine is similar-ish to this. My best friend told me when he proposed, talked to me about his wedding and that I was invited…we talked all about how it was gonna be on Halloween and people could dress spooky, etc. Then as the date neared and I never got a wedding invitation, I asked where he and his lady were registered so I could give them a gift. That’s when it came out that they decided the wedding should be “family only” for financial reasons. BUT then the night of the wedding I saw other people from high school upload photos of his wedding. They were all there.
I waited a few days and then called him out. He was all, “they are people who don’t like you and it would have caused issues.” These were people I hadn’t seen in 7ish years at that point and moved far, far past giving a fuck if they like me or not. And I would hope that they would never cause issues with me at someone’s fucking wedding. It eventually turned out that it was really a deflection for the fact his now-wife just doesn’t like me. She feels threatened by me and made him cut off any friendship at all with me. So that was all lovely.
When my “best friend” had marriage troubles, I was there for him. All through his wife’s infidelity, the divorce, and the custody battle. I testified on his behalf in court and he got custody of the kids.
Fast forward 2 years later, when I find out my wife is cheating on me. He’s not really interested in talking to me about it so much, and even acts like he’s not home when I stop by for a visit. And no, he wasn’t the one my wife was cheating with.
My best friend and I talked every day until I realized I was the one calling every time. So I stopped initiating. We didn’t talk for six months. I missed her, so i called and invited her to hang out. We do; it was fun. I made a sly comment suggesting she call me more. Her response? “Phones work both ways.”
Basically, she was willing to maintain a relationship and be friends as long as I did all the reaching out. Nope. I need a friend who thinks about me once in a while too.
When she told me she doesn’t like other girls except me cos she likes to be the prettiest girl in the room.
Best friend of 15 years. It all unraveled the night he told my cousin to kill herself, tried to start a fight with multiple people at my house, and flipped off my mom.
Edit: Yes, he was drunk at the time. No, I’m not reaching out to him. Disrespect to my family is an irredeemable offense in my eyes. He’s out of my life completely now.
When she invited me out to dinner as a Christmas gift, and then when the check was dropped, told me she actually couldn’t treat bc she had impulse bought her shitty boyfriend a plane ticket when she was drunk the evening before and therefore didn’t have the $$.
Among other things, but this was the moment when I was really like, wow, my friendship means nothing to her.
When he took credit for something I did and then talked shit behind my back saying I didn’t do any of the work
“Best friend” of 7 years “fell in love” with my fiance. When I told him I didn’t want to be friends anymore and kicked him out of my life, my fiance left me for him. I’ll be honest, I wanted to kill him and almost did.
When he ghosted me after I told him I had a tumor that ended up being cancerous.
Ordering me to help her with stuff, and there was once my 2 friends and I ordered drinks, friend A forgot to get a straw, my best friend which is friend B just took my straw and passed to friend A and asked me to go and get another one for myself. I was so heartbroken. :(
When my girlfriend left me my best friend at the time said: “it’s cool man, I fucked her, you don’t want trash like that in your life.” He was right.
When she got s-faced drunk at my son’s (her Godson’s) wedding, trashed a hotel room, called me horrible names and punched me closed-fist in the face. She ended up passed out on the grounds of the hotel, came to and was arrested for trespassing because she refused to leave the premises. Days later (via email) blaming me because she didn’t realize she was harboring so much “animosity” towards me.
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