“Always deflecting the blame when you confront her about any sort of issue, no matter if directly caused by her or not.”
“She’s always the victim in her stories, never the villain or the one who f@#ked something up.”
“Iif she makes fun of your biggest insecurities in front of other people for a laugh.”
“Slowly removing friends and family while making it seem as if it’s in your best interests. Also not wanting to admit faults or have excuses for their behaviors. Major red flag that you might be dealing with narcissism. Exaggerated self importance, excessive admiration for themselves, might seem like positive aspects to have, but are really major red flags.”
“Trying to change you and mocking your hobbies/friends. Unless you have no personal hygiene and your friends are criminals they should be accepting of you, not who they want you to be.”
“If she puts you down around others as a joke. Shows total disrespect and the need to “look good” at the expense of hurting others.”
"“Testing”, “playing games”. That’s manipulation.”"
“Romanticizing being a ‘psycho’. It’s not cute, it’s a massive red flag.”
“If she’s trying to stir up drama just so the relationship can be “fun”. I saw this with a former friend. Spicing things up as a couple is all good. But if she’s stirring up the pot by letting other guys flirt with her just so you can play jealous boyfriend so you can “rescue her” from a situation she started as if it’s some movie or something, STAY AWAY FROM HER.”
“Women who follow “rules” for dating. I have a friend who follows rules from Sex and the City. If she’s dating someone, they have to move in together at the 6 month mark, engaged at 1 year, etc. It always ends in disaster and she’s so focused on meeting those goals without paying attention to how her partner feels about any of it.”
“Making decisions on your behalf without asking – including what you will eat, wear or do.”
“If you walk away feeling depleted after spending time with her.”
“When she constantly traps you in difficult situations, like asking if she or her friend are prettier, sh#t like that. Sometimes they’re just looking to stir sh#t and there’s no right answer. Just run man.”
“Laying on a guilt trip if you’re going out with your friends and she’s not invited. Everyone needs time apart to hang out with their people.”
“If they treat you like a pet whose only job is to make her happy, buy her things, and give her attention, while she does the bare minimum in return.”
“If she gets jealous whenever she’s not the sole source of your joy/happiness.”
“The need to document EVERYTHING on social media.”
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totally! because you know they weren't mentioned or included so you had to bring it up. but i noticed you only mentioned 2 sexes, ya bigot
Are you ok, sweetie? Bad date with your boyfriend last night perhaps?
True Story: We were dating, 1v1. No Alternate players we were committed to one another. Not one of us said hey lets get married.. She just started planning like it was a given.. Wut?