“My grandfather always said if you don’t get to be attractive be friendly, funny, and learn to cook. Add in dress well and take care of yourself and it hasn’t failed me yet.“
“Like my old Irish grandmother used to say: “Aye if you can make a girl laugh, you’re halfway up her leg.”
“I knew a guy who was very short, bald, and had an average customer service job. He was extremely charming and friendly. He remembered my name and acted glad to see me every time. (He probably acted that way with a lot of women.) He always chit-chatted with me when he waited on me. I would date a guy like that, but he was already married.“
“Be funny and be considerate. That always trumps looks for me.“
“We all end up looking like raisins anyway. What you should be looking for is someone who’s kind. Nobody wants to be stuck with an evil raisin.” That plus, good hygiene, plus life skills, plus good fitness, and it won’t entirely matter.“
“Confidence and high but humble self esteem.“
“Figure out the parts of your appearance that you can control. Dress well, smell good, work out, find a haircut and facial hair that suits you. Have good posture, smile often, be friendly and pleasant even when you don’t have to be. You’d be surprised how far these go, even on an “ugly” guy.”
“Also, sort your shit out. Work on your inner landscape. Establish healthy boundaries with yourself. Work with your baggage to improve your mental and emotional health and become a person you like more and more over time. Pursue becoming conscientious, self-aware, authentic, and sincere. It takes time, and it is a life’s work, but there is something so undeniably magnetic about self-aware, earnest people.“
“Smell Good, doesn’t have to mean an expensive aftershave either, sometimes its just that clean fresh out of the shower smell that’s enough.“
“Exercise, eat better, dress better, get a better haircut, read a few books and pickup some hobbies to pickup experiences and become a more rounded and interesting human being.“
“I have a coworker who in my opinion is not a good looking dude, is overweight, balding, wears big thick glasses, and doesn’t do anything to dress nice or appealing. But that dude has dated some of the hottest girls I’ve seen around here because he has the most fun, caring, and chill personality I’ve seen in a guy in a long time. Just be a good person and if someone of quality sees that they will find you attractive. If they can’t see it that’s their loss.”
“Self deprecation is more unattractive then physical features. Work out, dress nice and have some self confidence.“
“First stop calling yourself ugly, like I understand we all do it to show how humble we are but dude someone out of 7 billion people would f@#k your brains out 6 ways till Sunday.“
“Learn some go to recipes and learn to cook. Study techniques and the dishes that use them. Same with alcoholic drinks / cocktails.“
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