"This is a little more specific, but anytime I find out that a (single) man is a bad or absent father, I am immediately turned off."
"Tell me they are a “good guy” and proceed to explain why. If you are a good guy, I don’t need to be sold on it, lol."
"Being rude, in general. It’s just not cool, or attractive."
"When they spend the majority of a conversation talking about themselves. And then when you think it’s finally your turn to speak, they still manage to turn the conversation back to themselves."
"Avoiding tough conversations."
"Bad f@#king breath."
"Poor hygiene."
"Complaining about other women or putting them down and outright dehumanizing them in order to “impress” another woman. That sh#t so insanely unattractive to me.
It’s like a gendered version of “But you’re one of the good ones so we don’t mean you.”"
"When they can’t admit they’re wrong, ever."
"Being an “alpha male.” You’re really just being a d@#k."
"Being douchey to their girlfriends/loved ones in front of their guy friends."
"Only treating women with respect if they find them attractive."
"Making any conversation sexual.
“I had a massage today.” Him: “I’ll come over and give you a massage.”
“Must be nice to be in your own bed again after travelling.” Him: ”Would be nicer to be in your bed.”
“My legs are sore from the first leg workout I’ve done in months because I had an injury and surgery.” Him: “Maybe if I kissed your legs they’d feel better.“
It’s so tiring. I’m all for flirting and stuff but it’s so tiring when you’re trying to have a normal conversation and it always gets flipped to something sexual."
"Being a bad listener."
"Putting others down and being arrogant. Legit if you ain’t got something good to say, don’t say it at all."
"Talking about how many women they can “pull” and especially if it’s multiple at one time. I honestly just find that behavior repulsive and don’t see why guys brag about it at all, especially when trying to impress women."
"All those “sweetie,” “darling,” “baby,” pet names without being that close. Level of hostility goes from 0 to 100 instantly."
"Being preachy … like thinking that your way of coping is a life lesson to be imparted on those around you.
It makes me both not want to open up to the person, and feel inherently judged by the fact that I have a diff worldview/coping mechanisms.'
"Incompetence when it comes to daily life stuff like cooking, cleaning up after yourself, laundry, etc. I don’t want to be someone’s mom."
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