“Manners. Speaking with kindness to people around you, bartender, waitress, valet.”
“A man who actually loves and takes care of his mom. Added bonus if he’s an animal lover.”
“Good listeners – not people who are just waiting for their turn to speak.”
“Nice smile and eyes. Voice is also important too it can affect my entire attraction to him.”
“He’s funny. Not in a ‘prank’ way but in a clever word-play manner. He doesn’t have to like what I like, but he allows me to like it without being demeaning or belittling. I dated a guy a guy once who was very different physically from my type – but he was so damn hot because he was clever, funny and caring.”
“When he geeks about stuff or the future.”
“Their hands.”
“A sense of humor. Someone who makes me laugh.”
“My girlfriend says “backing up a car” but specifically as effortlessly as driving it forwards.”
“Emotional maturity.”
“When he smiles and it reaches his eyes.”
“Intelligence, hands down, is sooo hot.”
“When he talks about something that he’s knowledgeable and excited about without talking down on you for not knowing about it.”
“Self awareness. Which translates into empathy for himself and others, kindness, honesty, deep conversations, A CALM ENERGY. Basically, a REAL nice genuine man not the ones who pretend to be nice guys just to get in your pants. Oh, and being a good dog dad or good dad in general.”
“When he rolls up his sleeves."
“When they have pets and treat them well.”
“When he can fix things.”
and over 6 ft tall. doesn't ever make him more attractive and have better humor. that's totally BS, a myth.
Midge,
Maybe a pro tip for you two what makes men unattractive instead:
Don't go all incel and start screaming how women are basically all prostitutes and only want a guy for the money. For some reason women don't like it...Because even though obviously some are only in a relationship JUST AS some men are only in a relationship for sex, it's untrue.
Most guys are not exactly rich and still manage to have a relationship.
In fact, millions of guys live in dirt poor conditions and are in a loving relationship.
The reason you two aren't might have less to do with what's in your wallet and more to do with what's in your heart and mind...
Amen. Incel reasoning from those two.
don't feed the troll, and for gods sake, don't give him tips on procreation
Suuuuuure...