“When you’re with friends and they become distinctly less pleasant to you than when you’re alone, like making fun of you and making jokes at your expense which they normally would not make. Have had it in more than one relationship.“
“Over-the-top solipsism. That whole “I don’t perceive it that way, therefore you perceiving it that way cannot be valid” mindset.“
“Mentioning their ex constantly.”
“Loudly empathizing with every cause and group on the planet but treating people in their personal lives like trash.“
“I think not taking accountability is the biggest one. You’ve messed up/were rude/incorrect/whatever, but just doubling down and never apologising or admitting fault is so unattractive. Just own it and apologise like a grown up. “I’m sorry but…” etc.“
“Denigrating and emasculating men who show emotions. It’s honestly one of the most f@#ked up things anyone can do to another person. Also, using a man’s kids as pawns in disputes, like cutting off visitation because you’re mad at him. Don’t f@#king do that, it’s just cruel to the kids.“
“One time an ex screamed at her 2 year old nephew. Instantly unattractive“
“Confusing confidence with being inconsiderate.“
“When they think a toxic trait of theirs is cute/quirky. There’s a big difference between being blunt in a respectful way and being a b#tch.“
“The f@#king testing. I appreciate that you have been in previous relationships where someone lied and/or cheated on you but don’t spend your entire single life trying to catch me in some lie so you can have your self fulfilling prophecy that all men are liars.“
“Silent treatment, I’ve hated it for the longest time, when you do something wrong and you try to apologize and they say nothing is even worse, just hurtful.“
“Cleaning my wife’s hair out of the drains grosses me out to the point where I gag. Idk why. I had no problem with other gross things. I can even clean up my dogs vomit with little to no gagging.“
“Casual hate, just chill why are you so upset about everything“
“Always talk about themselves and never ask you anything at all so the entire thing just revolves around her, not even like how was your day or are you ok, just always about them and the attention.”
“In Scotland. Obvious fake tan and over done makeup. You’re in f@#king Glasgow not madrid“
Using PMS for just being mean and rude. Yeah, I get that you don't feel good but it isn't a license to be a B.
Almost everything a woman does or says is either an attempt to manipulate you or it's just a flat out lie. (The lies are often to cover up the fact they were wrong.)
No being on Earth knows how to be as cruel and hurtful as a woman. A man could cause physical harm, but that heals. Women can hurt you in ways that never do.
True for every woman I've ever known, family included.
Maybe it's just penis envy...
And they hate each other.
- - - Al Bundy
But they take it out on men.
- - - Me