Paul Matthew, has tons of tattoos, split tongue, piercing, and all other kinds of modifications all over his body. After ending an eight-year relationship in 2005, Paul found himself living back at home with his parents and suffering from depression. The 43-year-old quit his job in digital marketing communications and signed up to a body modification website where he eventually met his now wife Rachel, 39. They have been happily married for 12 years.